WATCH: Black Ink Crew Chicago’s Van fires back at domestic abuse backlash “If he don’t yell at you, he don’t love you”

Van have been fighting off claims of domestic abuse from the futon critics lately who have been sounding-off about the hostile manner in which he have been handling his girlfriend Jen, but before viewers start to assume that his behavior is showing sure signs of possible violence within their relationship, watch as he goes live to explain his side of things and plead his case.

  • SpiceGirl

    seems the men have a problem….Phor on the other hand…his problem is Niki imo

  • Courtney Wheeler

    Van is weak

  • Nonkululeko MsParker Mpembe

    All these guys on the show have anger issues and these girls allow and tolerate this behavior from them.

  • Chezza49

    Nah mate !! Real grown ass men don’t speak to their women like that . It’s called Respect !!!! Poor lil fella ,he’ll grow up one day !!

  • Hope road

    Typical SMS – short man syndrome.

  • Faith

    This man is ignorant for real

  • Crystal Rankin

    πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ exactly!!

  • Ancient Wisdom

    Famous with only 80 people on his live, ok Vannessa!

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  • Shaqie Rose

    Agree strongly with you on this one bud.

  • Dodany

    That’s just how you do this shit and it is what it is. Howeverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr me as a man I just keep calm and listen to what she has to say. i I don’t agree I walk away. Real niggas respect their woman like they respect their mom, sister, daughter, grandmother and those they love.

  • BoomShakalaka

    Oh ok cool. As long as he has this same energy should a man scream at his daughter and tell her she can β€œget fucked up out here…stupid motherfuvker”.

  • KellieeJelliee

    If a man don’t yell at you, he don’t love you.


    I got two in love MARRIED parents and my dads voice holds 3x bass and he has not yell at my mother not once. The problem is she with a man that needs to heal by myself. He doesn’t need a companion. He has personal demons that he needs to deal with.

  • Chudney Hadura Williams

    maybe it’s you.

    projection is a motherfucker. πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

  • OGyungowl

    So the only reason you don’t fuck her up is because you’ll go to jail. A nigga, a villian, a person who flips out time and time again, this is a very ugly self portrait. I hope one day black men gain self control and stop thinking that master aka the police or security is their daddy and gonna whip them into being a decent person. See yourself as a human initially . Black women really dont deserve the way that black men devalue them. Black men stop fearing the oppressors instead fear not being your best self.

  • Nit18

    So firstly Jen wasn’t yelling when she came in. She just confronted ur ass. If van had a problem he shoulda discussed it with her at the time not leave and text her all day being disrespectful. If my man was doing all that I would pull up too. It was a mistake he just mad cuz he can’t go with the crew. Get over it grow up, her ass already left u once dude. Get it together

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    “If I don’t yell at you, I don’t love you” I despise this way of thinking.

  • yea but van is a lowkey hater and when nothing good is going good for him he try to take it out on other people he did the same thing to ryan

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  • lexdiamonz

    Nah b this convict whipping this GURL ass…and she boxing him up too.yall keep that prison hood booger love..

  • Crystal Rankin

    πŸ€” Did he say I’m famous nowπŸ™„πŸ˜’πŸ˜‘πŸ˜’πŸ˜‚πŸ€₯πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  • Nnenna

    he said on vh1… lol yeah right

  • Yerp!

    nah homie. My an would never come at me like that. If a man lovs you he will take the time to be careful how he speaks to you so as not to ruin the love he already has from you. Ladies know when to leave a man alone. Men who behave like that are much more likely to beat your ass a

  • πŸ€”Hmm#?

    Dude called his woman a stupid Mother F***ker as he yelled in her face…wow. 😯… he has been sending her foul text messages all day. Van has no respect for women neither himself. Premeditated ugly behavior. Van apparently sits on his lazy ass in a tattoo parlor collecting a VH1check. He has too much time on his hands. I can’t and will not be with someone who likes to take their anger out on me b/c of the poor life choices you made.

  • Shera Latoya

    Van is a good handsome man. Mm mm his better hold on tight before a groupie like me take him. πŸ˜œπŸ˜‰πŸ‘€

  • OnlyMyOpinionMatters

    Ok so y’all gonna sit here and nail this man to the cross for yelling, but Jen busting up in the shop yelling at him was ok? Chasing him through the parking lot was cool? I swear some of y’all so lost

  • WhitWhit

    This mans confused as hell

  • MelaninGoddess

    Hope you didn’t miss him saying that her nipples belong to him 😳 I knew he was on some nigga shit when he started off talkembout not hitting her while on tv…Im like… so if the cameras weren’t around ummmmmm what would’ve happened?? 😳

  • Precious Felix

    He won’t put his hands on a woman on VH1 but behind closed doors πŸ‘€. Who teaches ppl that this is love? He has a daughter omd! These are the types of guys (and the lady version of van) that shouldn’t have kids because they teach them that abuse (verbal n so on) is love. Idk why but this made me so sad. N sometimes this behaviour isn’t even learnt in the house but by their friends n shizz. What a life to live. I pray none of y’all are in a relationship with someone like him n you all remain happy n safe.

  • April_Moon

    And you know what’s the saddest part of what he’s saying to excuse his craziness?? The fact that some young girls will actually fall for it and find stuff like that acceptable based on his explanation smh. Van this was sooooo irresponsible for a man your age

  • LaNiece Robinson

    Van-Quisha really needs to sit her dysfunctional …half crazy-half retarded ass down with dat bullshyt…..

  • A lost Sheep

    If he dont yell at u, HE DONT LOVE U! ————————————————————————–, IS HE SERIOUS?